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Hi I’m Leonard

Some friends call me Lenard, some Leonard, and for my relatives, they call me Don, some of my colleagues call me Dr. Lee, some Sir Leonard, LJ, John.

-born under the zodiac sign of Sagittarius

that’s why I’m somehow moody, perfectionist, somewhat intellectual, with some sense of humor. However, I realized that being perfect in reality was boring and in a positive note, the imperfections of something made it interesting. It opened the possibilities of creation and growth.

I’m a man with wide dreams and ambitions in life, and would do anything to attain my goals.

Appears to be solid but melts when properly treated. I’m not saying I’m the best person in the world or anything, I guess I could’ve made better decisions.

- vastly exploratory and experimental. I can pour a lot of directed energy into what I’m doing, a lot of time if necessary, and a lot of effort.

Looking to expand my circle of friends, just your average guy here. Usually work too much and do not get out and play enough. I enjoy chatting with my online friends, learning some things related to computer like web designing, flash, css/html codes, etc., I love going to some forums and sharing my thoughts, writing articles like essay, poems, short stories. I love music but music hates me. I love doing favors for anyone, specialy to my friends, seing them satisfied and thankful is the best credit I may have, I feel so glad when I know that I helped someone.

I have a good sense of humor. Prefer to look at the positive side of things and not dwell on the negative. Solutions not problems. But willing to help talk it out with you if that’s what you need.

I am a good listener and a secret hider, because I always forget what other people shares to me… so perhaps if you have hard feelings or problems I’m the best person you could share to. My attentive listening and talent in showing empathy to other is my secret why my friends choose me as their outlet.

I can be shy when I first meet someone but usually open up quickly when comfortable. I tend to trust people up front and do not require people to earn my trust. I am strong minded and don’t always do what I am told to do. Especially when I know I am right.

I am blithe and a liberated chap, however I still have my curbs and limits. I know what is fine and horrendous for me.

I sob. It’s alright for men to be in tuned with the emotions. I believe that expressing what I feel would not make me less of a man. Men are human too.

I am physically observant with others. I walk with a positive air. No angst. No complaints.

I am tried to do stupid and shitty stuff before out of inquisitiveness.

I am absolutely volatile.

I don’t like airhead people; they should look at themselves first in the mirror.
I hate people who discriminate others just because they are very different from others, I hate people who laughs at someone’s imperfections as if they are perfect.

I seek for constant self-improvement and would want more time to fulfill my dreams.
Finally, I make sure that I keep my feet firmly planted on the ground.

I am blessed to have friends and meet people whose beliefs, principles, and outlook runs an erratic line. The colorful personalities and varying egos is quite helpful in drawing a rough opinion as to how they simply under or overestimate each other. I am looking for someone who can keep me interested at all times, som1 who can make me laugh. I am looking 4 meeting real people rather than endless yak. I’d rather have millions of “True” friends than having a best friend.

in short I am Hearty, frank, decisive, a leader in activities, usually good in anything that requires reasoning and intelligent talk, such as public speaking. Are usually well informed and enjoy adding to their fund of knowledge. May sometimes appear more positive and confident than their experience in an area warrants.

That’s All, thank you for reading.

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The title came from Freudian psychoanalytic theory, defence mechanisms or defense mechanisms (see -ce/-se) are psychological strategies brought into play by various entities to cope with reality and to maintain self-image. Healthy persons normally use different defences throughout life.  The purpose of the Ego Defence Mechanisms is to protect the mind/self/ego from anxiety, social sanctions or to provide a refuge from a situation with which one cannot currently cope.

Intellectualization is under Level 3 Defense mechanism of this theory Frued defines intellectualization as A form of isolation; concentrating on the intellectual components of a situation so as to distance oneself from the associated anxiety-provoking emotions; separation of emotion from ideas; thinking about wishes in formal, affectively bland terms and not acting on them; avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects (e.g. Isolation, Rationalization, Ritual, Undoing, Compensation, Magical thinking).